What's the female equivalent of "bros before hoes"? That's ostensibly the topic on the agenda today. Typically, proper protocol would say that the girls should come before the great guy who lives in Philadelphia, and you have to imagine that's how readers will see it. But it's worth noting that Shelasky is writing a blog about her dating life. So, uh, wouldn't it make sense for her to go on the date instead of spending time with the girls?

But, again, that's only the ostensible question. The real one is: Which of her friends has a membership in Soho House?

And, of course, there's this comment from dinner there:

Everyone called me crazy for putting myself out there on this blog (I still don't see what's so damn nutso about it, but that's another topic). But they're just looking out for me, and I think they saw how theraputic all this self-expression actually is (Thanks, by the way).

That's another topic??? No, that's the topic.